HMM SAY WHAT?

ok so here we go... this is why im starting to think ALL MEN ARE SCUM...
so mc.steamy -- yes mc. steamy -- ive never written about him, but he was my first omg i love him and his dreamy eyes and smile person. he was super hot, and every girl wanted him... ahhh. he was the hunk of the school.... hmmmm
yes, we dated in highschool and a little bit of undergrad, but of course i broke up with him when i realized he was cheating on me. so didnt talk to him much after that. 5 years later, about a year ago we patched up our old differences and decided to be "friends". now the word "friends" here means -- if i run into u in public, i wont spill whatever food item or beverage im holding in my hand on u or wont kick u in the nuts passing by. when i meant friends i meant, i'll be civilized to you should the occasion arise....
so in the past year, we've spoken about 3 to 4 times... and recently this summer he started coming online more often and msg'in me more often. so i said whatever, he's harmless, he's engaged ... almost married to the love of his life... and i was super happy for him.
so i asked him "ooo when's the wedding" and he said "oh about a month away, and this is gonna be my month of fun, away from the fiance"
and he kept hinting at this month of fun, so i figured ok -- lets ask him about it. i did... and he said he wanted to do "fun bachelor things..."

** A HUGE HONKING RED LIGHT GOES OFF IN MY HEAD .. SCREAMING DANGER DANGER DANGER** but im thinking, ok that was the old mc.steamy.. now he's more like a mc.safety. so i wrote it off as im the perverted one and i should give him the benefit of the doubt.

then he says "know anyone to have fun with? how about you? you dont even count cause we dated before, and well i wouldnt be lying to her if she even asks about anything, cause we dated before"

SAY WHAT? hmmm EXCUSE ME???? did you just --- MY THAT IS FORWARD. I DONT COUNT???????/
men of the world is that true???? if u've been with someone, half a decade later u be with them again, it doesnt count??
what if i was speaking sexually here? are you saying ure # doesnt go up again, well cause its the same women, and since ure # doesnt go up again, ITS OK CAUSE IT DOESNT COUNT in a manner of speaking? that is one TWISTED asss logic. women be sure to get the 'years' ure men have been with these so called "number" of women. cause it could be only 5 women, but the 5th one was yesterday... and uve been dating him for 2 months or geez even about to marry him.

here i was mad at me for not giving him the benefit of the doubt that he deserved. mc.safety my asss -- mc.creppy is more like it.
right i was. once a scumbag, always a scumbag. now now dont get me wrong.. HE'S A HOT PIECE OF ASS.. but a hot piece of scumbag ass!!! geez.

i left and i blocked him from my list. geeeezzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz, lol i think he got my answer right there.

well what they say is true "ONCE A CHEATER, ALWAYS A CHEATER!"

i've always thought to my self.. lol this only happens in the movies or on TV. hmmmm perhaps me and my little adventures might be on the big screen one day... watch out for it. lol... cause weird ex's dont come back half a decade later with creepy proposals of sex before they are about to get married TO EVERYONE. geezzzz, glad i dumped him whenever i did.
this only happens in pooja's life.. hahahahahaha!!!!